The BIG life decision

I've recently been talking to various different people about life choices.

You know the ones "should I have children" "will blowing £80k on a car really effect my future that much?" "Have I got time for a Boyfriend?"

The consequences on these decision is huge! I've pretty much decided I'll never have kids. It's not me. I don't drive so there is no reason to buy the Ferrari and I just haven't got time to have a BF at the minute. Why? My friend summed it up perfectly "why on earth do you want a BF? You're married to your work and lifestyle". Game. Set. Match to him. 

It's true and the consequences of marrying my job is huge, I just didn't see it until now. The likelihood is I'm going to end up in a big house, surrounded by friends with no one to love. And it's sad to say but I'm ok with that. Now I can already hear the screams of "but you're only (almost) 30!" 

I'm actually torn on this at the minute. I AM ok with it but the situation is really sad. Who knows, I could be hit by a bus tomorrow and the future will be short lived. Or I could meet the man who will change it all... Right now, I'm going back to work....

Bare in mind the ripple effect of your decisions.... Is it too late for you to change? It's going to take some sort of natural disaster at my end...

Think about it...

Until next time

Miss Make It Happen

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It Feels Like I've Known You Forever...

Two things happened to me yesterday that really stood out.

Firstly, I met up with an old friend who I haven't spoken to for over a year. We'd had a falling out some time back and we were meeting to build bridges. When I saw him, it felt like the past had never happened. We were meant to be friends and be involved in each others lives. Life is too short to hold grudges and keep people in the dog house. Turns out we'd been absent from each others lives during a massive turning point for both of us. If we had stayed friends would we have helped each other or been a hindrance, who knows? The important point is we were now talking again. Unfortunately, we only had about 90 minutes to catch up but in that time I couldn't help stare at my friend. His smile, his animated hand gestures, his passion for his work. He'd been through a lot and he was now happy. In fact, we were both happy. It didn't matter what happened in the past, My friend was happy and that's the important part. I'm happy for him. (Lots of 'Happy' in those last few sentences, did you pick up on that?)
If you are holding a grudge against an old friend, ask yourself this - If they died tomorrow, would you feel sad / miss them? If the answer is yes, pick up the phone and make amends. My friendship was salvaged because I received a text message that simply said 'I Miss You'. Do something today, before it's too late.

Secondly, I had a dinner booked. 2 of the people I knew and had previously met before, and the 3rd I had only ever spoken to on social media. We'd talked a lot and got to know each other but I was somewhat surprised how natural our friendship was after meeting for the first time. It was as if we'd known each other for years. Never underestimate the importance of building relationships over social media.Not everyone is a keyboard warrior / stalker / rapist. It really takes the awkwardness out of initial meetings!

Until Next Time,
Much Love

Miss Make It Happen

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Rollin' Dices

I've been to a few ladies nights in my time but last night was something special...

I was recently invited to the launch of the newest and hottest all male extravaganza in London - Rollin' Dices. I wasn't expecting anything different to the 10's of shows I've seen before but boy was I in for a shock. In a good way. A VERY good way.

I turned up ready to meet my friends but they were no where to been seen. Turns out they had broken down on the M25 and I was flying solo. I decided to go home. As I turned to walk away something in my subconscious pulled me back. I turned back and threw caution to the wind. As I approached the door to Loop Bar (19 Derling Street, London, W1S 1AH) I was greeted by Matt, one of the entertainers. I instantly felt at home and at ease. He took me downstairs and introduced me to the rest of the boys. I can't lie, I felt like a fat kid in a sweet shop. Standing in front of me were some of the most gorgeous yet lovely men I've ever met. Absolute gentlemen. It took all my self control not to touch them. 

I went to the bar and ordered myself a cocktail. The prices are pretty good considering I was in a venue in West London! The dance floor in the centre of the room was lit up so I found myself a spot on the edge and waited. As I waited, women of all ages were coming through the door, obviously excited about what was about to happen. Everyone was smiling and the atmosphere was great! You couldn't help but get caught up in the merriment. 

SHOW TIME! At first the boys came out dressed in army uniform. You know the type - sexy white vest and cargo pants. I was quite happy standing all by myself but it seems that was not to be the case for much longer. Before I knew it I was on the dance floor, being handcuffed to a chair. I was then gifted with THE sexiest dance imaginable. My mummy always told me not to touch what wasn't mine. Usually, I would listen but in this instance I couldn't control myself. I licked him. I also tried to bite his bottom but the handcuffs were stopping me. At the end of the dance the keys to my handcuffs were inserted in to the waistband of the dancers boxers. I had to remove them with my teeth! I wasn't complaining. When a guy, who looks like Jason Statham, tells you to do something, you do it. Well, I was only too happy to. 

The rest of the show included more sexy dancing, removal of costumes and audience participation. I won't go in to too much detail, I don't want to spoil it for you, but you should really go see the boys in action. The part of the show that involves 2 of the dancers, 3 audience members and a cucumber is pure brilliance! After the show finished the boys spend time amongst the audience, taking pictures and getting to know as many people as possible. It is really nice to see this element to a show. You usually have to pay extra! Although I was flying solo on this occasion I will most certainly be bringing my girls back to see the show again. Maybe I can also persuade the boys to do a private show at my 30th in October?? A girl can live in hope! 

To find out more information about the boys and their shows visit www.rollindices.com

Thank you Andrius, Patrick and Matt for coming to say goodbye and for the hugs and kisses! You made my night. Look forward to seeing you all again soon.

Much Love,

Dee xx

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          The gorgeous (inside and out) Patrick.